Why does it take so much time to heal after being with a Narcissist or Psychopath?

Yep, I know, second post of the day, but this is true and speaks to me on such a deep level. I understand this! It makes sense to me so well. I understand even more about my relationship with that psychopath now. This lady is amazing, what strength and courage.

Surviving a Sociopath ~ Regaining Life with a Twist of Wicked Chaos

(This topic comes from a book called Psychopath Free: Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, & Other Toxic People)

Relationships with psychopaths take an unusually long time to recover from. Survivors often find themselves frustrated because they haven’t healed as fast as they’d like. They also end up dealing with friends & therapists who give them judgmental advice about how it’s “time to move on”.

Whether you were in a long-term marriage or a quick summer fling, the recovery process will be the same when it comes to a psychopathic encounter. It takes 12-24 months to get your heart back in a good place, and even after that, you might have tough days. I certainly do!

The important thing here is to stop blaming yourself. Stop wishing it would go faster. Stop thinking that the psychopath somehow “wins” if you’re still hurting. They are out of the…

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3 comments on “Why does it take so much time to heal after being with a Narcissist or Psychopath?

  1. Thank you for the re-blog! I was a bit lazy and did not put the full link to the book in my post (in case it was of interest). Very helpful in healing!
    Psychopath Free: Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, & Other Toxic People

  2. […] Why does it take so much time to heal after being with a Narcissist or Psychopath? (battybeth108.wordpress.com) […]

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